Hi
Readers
Sorry for the long
pause. Sometimes in life, you can't manage all the things all the while. So you
take a breather or a series of breathers in my case and are back with a bang.
Life is blessed these days. I have come back to my work like I had never been
away and I am happy to report that the work environment now has shown
considerable improvement. On the personal front, I forage into the world of
literature and am now trying to be a.... ahem ahem published author soon.
Sample this:
You have some
close friends and one of them is having their birthday soon. Now all of your friends
come to you and ask “What shall I give!” You are the designated genius of the
group so you think hard, explore and give them a few options. That’s when the
trouble starts looming. I might be making a mountain out of a molehill yet it
bothers me. Not the effort, not the going through the motions of making the
booking/purchasing/ planning etc. but the fact that you are supposed to deal
with this from end to end.
Lately I have been
crazily and hungrily searching for extraordinary gifting ideas. Boy! This
market has undergone a radical change. You name it, you have it!
Well, then came the
sly little snake of trouble. My near and dear ones rely heavily on me to find
gifts for their birthdays, their special ones' birthdays, and other special
occasions. To make matters worse, my own birthday as well. To those who say, 'It’s
the thought that counts!' It does but when it comes to what kind of gift was
chosen for you or the value of it.
Once you have
taken a few suggestions from your close ones or me for that matter, rest of it
should be your own show, I think. The main thrill of gifting is finding
something a person wants, not what a person needs. Needs are basic, wants exciting!
And with so many
hints scattered around... my near ones just lean on me to find the perfect gift
for.... dhan tanana Me!! Yeah you heard that right. It is my birthday
next month and I am supposed to find the perfect gifts for myself... It’s
stressing me out. Everyone will once again go through the motions of “Kya
chahiye aapko”? Actually a little attention to details from your end would
be nice. What makes it worse is “Kuchch pasand aaye to bata dena!”
This half-hearted ‘Buy
something for yourself, I will pay’ just does not compare with the thrill of
the surprise of finding something waiting for you... something which you
neither anticipated nor were looking forward to. Something that just resonated
with the receiver! Gone are the days when you had to turn the markets upside
down to find something, then pack and send it off. Nowadays mostly ‘a few clicks
on the system or your phone’ is all it takes.
A few minutes of
your time and the person concerned would be showered with the love you gave
them. I have come to a point in my life where moneywise I am comfortable.
Although I now never let my guard down and have a kitty maintained for
emergencies….Still I enjoy my earnings in a way which was missing earlier. My
book collection has grown exponentially and I have collected many beautiful things
like handmade diaries in my home.
Even then, if you take the effort of sparing a few minutes for me and find something, it will make me far happier than asking you to get me something of my choice. There are ways of knowing what a person would like or love by simply observing them a little closely. Please do observe and gift them the smile that comes when they find something waiting for them, unexpectedly and surprisingly.
Ciao!
